Yes, he is likable. That's one of the reasons he's done so well. It sounds like you can see him clearly and take what resonates for you, and that's a laudable approach.

As for the ex-partner, all I can say is that it's worth watching her video. It didn't feel vindictive to me. In my opinion, she is quite measured and, as I recall, simply points out some facts about the degree Shetty got.